I'm always being told by people who I meet that I spread a happy vibe.
And people who I know always ask how I maintain a positive attitude.
I'm rarely sad and if I am, I take myself out of the situation.
Some people do not realise this but you are in control of your mind.
This isn't me lecturing you on how to be a happy person but this is what keeps me at my best.
And people who I know always ask how I maintain a positive attitude.
I'm rarely sad and if I am, I take myself out of the situation.
Some people do not realise this but you are in control of your mind.
This isn't me lecturing you on how to be a happy person but this is what keeps me at my best.
Do not hold onto the past.
I spent last year sad as I lost so many friends. It took me a long time to adjust to having a big group of friends to the complete opposite. I'd always reminisce at old pictures blaming myself for something which was bound to happen. We were all finding ourselves and on our own journey's and I realised we weren't necessarily meant to be in each other's lives. As sad as it is to lose people it is also a time for you to meet new people or find out more about yourself. I noticed how I was defined by many of my friends because of their personalities that I didn't get to be myself. I had to come out of my comfort zone and find out what type of person I was. You have to understand that everything does happen for a reason. Learn and grow from it.
I spent last year sad as I lost so many friends. It took me a long time to adjust to having a big group of friends to the complete opposite. I'd always reminisce at old pictures blaming myself for something which was bound to happen. We were all finding ourselves and on our own journey's and I realised we weren't necessarily meant to be in each other's lives. As sad as it is to lose people it is also a time for you to meet new people or find out more about yourself. I noticed how I was defined by many of my friends because of their personalities that I didn't get to be myself. I had to come out of my comfort zone and find out what type of person I was. You have to understand that everything does happen for a reason. Learn and grow from it.
Believe in yourself.
You know your vision. You know where you want to be and only you know how to get there. Do not be disheartened when people do not believe in you. Use it to motivate you. I do not believe in trying to prove people wrong as you shouldn't have to make someone feel important to do that. Instead invest your energy and time into focusing on you. I cannot emphasize how many people were so negative when I mentioned my first blog post or when I would smile whilst speaking of my ventures and now they are the same people who want to be around me and who want me to help them.
Love.
Self love and loving other people is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves in life. If you do not love yourself, who will? You need to feel confident in your skin as this will lead to self doubt. I can list how doubt can impact your life in such as a negative way as you will never feel good enough. Trust yourself and be yourself. Not everyone will like you or accept you but it's so draining to invest time into being someone to please one person. Spread love to other people. I believe that the energy you put out is what you will receive. Always be kind to everyone no matter what race, gender or age. We are all equal and we should all be valued.
You know your vision. You know where you want to be and only you know how to get there. Do not be disheartened when people do not believe in you. Use it to motivate you. I do not believe in trying to prove people wrong as you shouldn't have to make someone feel important to do that. Instead invest your energy and time into focusing on you. I cannot emphasize how many people were so negative when I mentioned my first blog post or when I would smile whilst speaking of my ventures and now they are the same people who want to be around me and who want me to help them.
Love.
Self love and loving other people is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves in life. If you do not love yourself, who will? You need to feel confident in your skin as this will lead to self doubt. I can list how doubt can impact your life in such as a negative way as you will never feel good enough. Trust yourself and be yourself. Not everyone will like you or accept you but it's so draining to invest time into being someone to please one person. Spread love to other people. I believe that the energy you put out is what you will receive. Always be kind to everyone no matter what race, gender or age. We are all equal and we should all be valued.
Think positively.
Everyday when I wake up I thank God that I was able to see another day. I stretch and open my window to allow the fresh air to uplift my spirits. If you start your day with a bad attitude that you'd rather be in bed then do not expect to have a good day. As much as we all love staying in bed, the world isn't wrapped in our duvet covers. It is outside, go and explore. Do not be negative about situations, instead find ways of turning it into a positive. Every situation will have an end result, either a lesson or a blessing. Also, being positive towards other people. As females I see too many women degrading others on a daily basis online and in person and I just do not understand what pleasure you get from making someone else feel low about themselves.
Surround yourself with love.
People around us inject so many messages to us as we are around them absorbing their thoughts. If these people are always negative or always bringing you down, they do not deserve to be in your life. Their energy will be spread to you making you feel drained and dull hence why I had to re-evaluate who was worth being in my life. This doesn't mean shunning everyone out, it means knowing your worth as a person. You do not need anybody. You do not need anybody to tell you your beauty, your intelligence and certainly not your worth. You are supposed to believe it and people are only supposed to add it on. Do not rely on people for happiness as once they are gone, you will crave them in the deepest ways.
Everyday when I wake up I thank God that I was able to see another day. I stretch and open my window to allow the fresh air to uplift my spirits. If you start your day with a bad attitude that you'd rather be in bed then do not expect to have a good day. As much as we all love staying in bed, the world isn't wrapped in our duvet covers. It is outside, go and explore. Do not be negative about situations, instead find ways of turning it into a positive. Every situation will have an end result, either a lesson or a blessing. Also, being positive towards other people. As females I see too many women degrading others on a daily basis online and in person and I just do not understand what pleasure you get from making someone else feel low about themselves.
Surround yourself with love.
People around us inject so many messages to us as we are around them absorbing their thoughts. If these people are always negative or always bringing you down, they do not deserve to be in your life. Their energy will be spread to you making you feel drained and dull hence why I had to re-evaluate who was worth being in my life. This doesn't mean shunning everyone out, it means knowing your worth as a person. You do not need anybody. You do not need anybody to tell you your beauty, your intelligence and certainly not your worth. You are supposed to believe it and people are only supposed to add it on. Do not rely on people for happiness as once they are gone, you will crave them in the deepest ways.
"Whatever relationships you have attracted in your life at this moment,
are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment.
There is a hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own evolution"
- Deepak Chopra
Thank you for the love.
Keep shining.
love,
frogirl
are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment.
There is a hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own evolution"
- Deepak Chopra
Thank you for the love.
Keep shining.
love,
frogirl